Jealousy



   What is jealousy? Jealousy is a disposition in which we feel angry or unhappy because we do not posses something that someone possesses or because someone we like or love shows interest in someone else. Jealousy is an undesirable emotion that can lead to a lot of unhappiness and even murder.

   Jealousy over material possessions is quite common amongst people -young and old. Among youths, it can be simple things like an expensive pencil pouch, branded garments and flashy cars. They are the symbols of status, wealth and style and are much desired by youths. As a result, they are also the provocations of jealousy. The few who can afford them tend to be ostentatious while the many cannot afford them feel jealous. These feelings of jealousy can result in arguments, quarrels and even fights.

   The effects of jealousy can be harmful. Let us deal with jealousy among youths over material things like expensive possessions and designer garments. It is a fact of life that this is a materialistic world and youths with expensive possessions tend to show off so as to attract groovy company. It is a fact that some are born lucky. So, it is better for those who are less lucky not to be jealous of the lucky ones. If they are jealous of others, they will only make themselves unhappy and in the process, become unsociable themselves. They tend to compare and complain too much and too often. They will make themselves very unpleasant company in the presence of others and even their bosom buddies will gradually shy away from them.

   How can adolescents like us rid ourselves of feelings of jealousy? Among our friends and schoolmates, there are those who are wealthy and brainy. There are those who possess status symbols and attain stellar academic grades. We should open up ourselves and accept the reality of circumstances. Be modest. Have a good and sincere word of compliment for whatever is good and amazing. Do not wrap ourselves up in petty jealousies. That way, we will be happier with ourselves and feel comfortable in the company of friends.

   Jealousy is an insidious disposition. It is a natural streak in many of us and it can gradually harm our personality. It can be an obstacle that can hold us back from doing something good for ourselves. So, be positive in outlook. Be envious of others by all means but never be jealous as envy can be turned into motivation to try harder in whatever we do. So, do no be jealous. Be envious, if you like.